I interviewed a master teacher
about dyslexia and its affect on parents/families of children with dyslexia.
She said that it is so stressful for the family because the dyslexic child has
to work harder to complete their daily schoolwork. When they come home from
school after working all day, they are worn out, but they have more school to
do. It takes them so much longer to do things, so the child becomes easily
frustrated –and the parents have to deal with the child’s frustration.
When a child with dyslexia comes
home with a lot of homework to do, the parent has to work with a tired child who
has these assignments that take way longer than they should. Homework begins to
take away time from relaxing, fun family time. This can cause tension between
the child and parent(s), and siblings may become jealous of the amount of time
being given to the child with dyslexia.
Siblings can cause stress on the
child with dyslexia, especially when they are younger than the child with
dyslexia. Their academic skills will begin to surpass the dyslexic child’s
academic skills, which can often lead to resentment and strife between the
siblings. For example, if a child in fourth grade has dyslexia and his sibling,
who is in second grade, is a typical child, the second grader may tease or
compete with the older sibling with dyslexia. Academics will come easy for the
second grader, but the fourth grader may grow discouraged as he observes his
younger sibling.
~Sarah Beth~
I think that this is a common problem in households. Students spend all day doing school work and then come home and have difficulties, so they spend hours more on school. Some children are very perassured by this situation. If parents suggest difficulties with students completing homework than a different method may need to be put in place for the student. In this case, the teacher may give the student a homework packet that needs to be completed within the week. The teacher could also sugggest that a timer be set for a specific time and when the time is up the student stops so that the child doesnt so homework for hours.
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